Plan the hen or stag do
Add who's coming and what it costs, and the planner splits it for you. Tick people off as they pay, then send everyone one clear message.
1 The basics
2 Who's coming
3 Costs
4 The plan for the day
Need ideas? Tap one to add it to the plan.
Low cost
Mid range
Big blowout
5 How to pay
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Quick guide
How to use the hen do planner
- Pick hen, stag or joint do, and add the date and pay-by date.
- Add everyone who's coming and the costs.
- Plan the day, using the ideas if you need them.
- Send the group message on WhatsApp and tick people off as they pay.

What it does
- Guest list with deposit and paid ticks
- Costs split per person automatically
- Guest of honour goes free option
- Plan for the day, with ideas by budget
- Ready-made WhatsApp message for the group
- Print a summary
Use it with
- Party Budget Calculator – enter your party budget and guest numbers to get a suggested split across nine categories, with sliders to adjust each share and live totals
- Party Games – how to play 29 party games for adults, mixed ages and children: music games, icebreakers, milestone birthday, Christmas, wedding and children's party games. Filter by who is playing, the occasion and the number of guests, or let the page pick one for you
- Free Wedding Website – a free one-page wedding website for your guests. Times, venues with maps, dress code, places to stay, your gift list and how to reply, shared as one link or a QR code
- Late-Night Taxi & Minibus Planner – enter how many guests need a lift home and choose taxis, minibuses or a mix to see roughly how many vehicles to book
Questions
Hen & Stag Do Planner: common questions
Does the bride or groom pay for their hen or stag do?
Usually not. Most groups split the guest of honour's share between everyone else. The planner does this for you, or you can turn it off.
How far ahead should we plan a hen or stag do?
Two to three months ahead is common for a day out, and longer for a weekend away. Ask for deposits early so the numbers are fixed.
Can I share the plan with the group?
Yes. The planner writes one message with the date, the plan, the cost each and how to pay, ready to send on WhatsApp or copy anywhere.
Is the information saved?
It saves in this browser only, so you can come back to it. Nothing is sent to Mobile Disco Network.
Tim’s tip
Book the main activity and the evening venue first, then build the rest of the day around them. Ask for deposits early, so nobody drops out at the last minute.
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